In the early days of Timothy’s ministry, Paul exhorted him to walk in faith, love, courage and self control. (2Timothy 1:7) For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. We know that believers have a constant battle going on in the mind; we practice negative self talk, guilty… Read More You Have Been Given a Spirit of Power
As we deal with imperfect human beings we are vulnerable at any given time to abuse. Abuse comes in different forms, it doesn’t always manifest in causing physical pain, but emotional, mental, verbal, spiritual and financial struggle or suffering. Whether its friends, family or romantic relationships- we must call a thing what it is. We… Read More Domestic Violence & Marriage
In short, the bible says that Saul disobeyed God and the Lord wasn’t interested in his offering. You see the Lord knows the intentions of our hearts, He knew that Saul wanted to justify or manipulate Him by saving the animals to offer as sacrifice. There are a few things I’d like to mention before moving… Read More The Truth about Rebellion:
The word of God is God Breathed and God used people to write it, which is the same as you or myself being used by God to bring supernatural healing, liberation or a prophetic word from God. It doesn’t come from you or me, but from God. The scriptures are useful for teaching rebuke, correction… Read More Can Christianity and New Age Beliefs Co Exist?
Have you ever been happy for somebody’ else but in the back of your mind wondered, what about me? It’s OK, so have I. We tend to feel emotions like inadequacy, jealousy and envy when things don’t go the way we hoped. But this is only a human thing. God alone is above the notion… Read More Jealousy and Envy
One of my favorite stories in the bible is the story of Joseph. Joseph’s brothers threw him into a pit and then sold him to Egyptians passing by. God had given him a dream and that dream caused his own family to hate him. One of the greatest morals of this story, is Joseph’s resilience.… Read More Life Will Make You Strong
Do you wish life had a rewind button? I have considered this to no avail because we can’t change. Life doesn’t work backwards; it always moves forward. Regret could be any occurrence related to looking back and thinking, we could have made a better decision at the time. Consequently, we perceive life from a place… Read More Guilt, Shame and Regret (3)
So Abram said to Lot, “There should be no arguing between you and me or between your people and my people. We are all brothers. We should separate. You can choose any place you want. If you go to the left, I will go to the right. If you go to the right, I will go… Read More Familiarity & Religion
Then the LORD said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil. Job 1:8 You may not always understand why God allows certain things to happen, but you can be certain that He is… Read More God orchestrated it
The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower. Psalm 18:2 Misery loves company, as the world says. Emotions are open doors, to the enemy and this is a slick way for… Read More Testimony Devotional 1/13/2017
In order to live joyfilled and content lives in Christ, we must release the things that weigh us down. These are BURDENS! #Burdens can be incorrect thought patterns, unhealthy habits or emotions that make us feel heavy. The Lord tells us in His word to PUT ON LOVE, PUT ON CHRIST. Just like clothing, we… Read More God Wants to Give You an Abundant Life: Release The Burdens
Narcissism originated from Greek mythology, the story says that there was a man named Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Narcissistic people are those who love and value themselves, ideas and wellbeing much more than their neighbor. Psychology says these people pursue gratification from egotistical admiration, vanity… Read More Narcissism
Attachment theories are based on the development of our attachment in relationships. This development depends on the initial relationship with our caretakers during our childhood. Those in our homes, those who raised us, influence how we understand and perceive the world. The relationship influences how we relate to others in romantic relationships, friendships, business rapports… Read More Attachment theories
I heard a story from Les Brown where he shared of a man that was afraid of dogs. Whenever we’re afraid of anything, let’s think about this story! The power of the mind is amazing. Studies show that the mind cannot tell the difference between something imagined from experienced. We can convince ourselves of anything.… Read More The Power of The Mind
In order for a person to be diagnosed with sociopathy or psychopathy, the characteristics and behavior has to be severe and consistent. These people show no regard for other peoples emotions or well-being and have no problem deceiving, manipulating and controlling others for their own advantage. It is said they are fearless, lack remorse and… Read More Sociopaths and Psychopaths
If we are surrounded by toxic people, manipulators or even people who are condescending or patronizing, it’s impossible to be healed. Even Jesus couldn’t help people in the bible because of their surroundings. Some thing to think about as we begin 2021 is that change of environment is sometimes necessary for healing and miracles. Before… Read More Changing our Surroundings is Necessary
Who’s influence is greater in your life? Who’s opinion do you highly esteem? I used to think that people pleasers were validation seekers, but they are only a group of people under that umbrella. But the differentiating marker is that they operate from hypocrisy. And the word hypocrite comes from the Greek, meaning ‘actor’ or… Read More People Pleasers
People often ask, why do you say it’s a bad thing to be a perfectionist? The issue with perfectionism is that: It is impossible to achieve: We live in a fallen world, nothing and no one will do anything perfect. Ever. Despite of practice, rehearsal and repetition. We are inter-relational beings and will need help… Read More The Problem with being a Perfectionist
Validation is a sneaky thing. Most people don’t know that they are seeking validation. While we know that we test the validity of facts, statements and other things; our validation is in Christ. A cause of validation deficit comes from having an upbringing where our identity was shunned, stunted and critiqued by others. In effect… Read More Validation
